An elder once said, "Stop reopening closed doors." It’s a sentiment that rings deep within, echoing the need to let go of things that have passed and move forward into new possibilities. There’s power in this message—an invitation to release the past and embrace what lies ahead. In times when doors seem to close, it’s easy to feel disappointed or question what went wrong. Yet, in truth, closed doors often signal that it’s time for us to evolve, learn, and align with the path we’re meant to walk.
As eclipse season ushers in, this message holds even more significance. Eclipses are known for their ability to shake things up—bringing the light of awareness to things we might have ignored, swept under the rug, or clung to out of habit. I’m learning what this season truly means. It’s not just about big, transformative events (though those can certainly happen), but about internal shifts. Eclipses help us shed layers and release what no longer serves us, sometimes in ways that feel abrupt or uncomfortable.
During this time, many of us experience "jumplines," karmic breakthroughs, and even ego deaths. These moments often leave us feeling exposed, raw, and ready for something new, but they also remind us that we are constantly evolving. The spiritual work we do, the shadow work, is never truly "done." It’s a continual process of growth, re-learning, and re-evaluating who we are. As long as we are alive, there will always be more to uncover, understand, and release.
Autonomy becomes crucial in times like this. It’s easy to be tempted to revisit old situations, past relationships, or familiar spaces that once felt comfortable. But when we trust ourselves, we remember that what is meant for us will never miss, even if the road is delayed. That delay doesn’t mean it’s not for us—it simply means that there’s something else we need to do first. We might feel called to go our own way, to trust our instincts, and to not fear being separate from the crowd or the past.
Tyler, the Creator wisely said, "Sometimes you gotta close the door to open the window." It’s a beautiful reminder that while we may feel the loss of something familiar, what waits for us on the other side can often be more expansive, more aligned with our true path.
These days, I'm always looking for stories in my practice that resonate with my growth. Numerous stories mirror this sentiment of releasing what no longer serves us and trusting the unfolding of destiny. One such story comes from an Odu Oyeku Meji.
In this Odu, Orunmila guides humanity to release outdated ways and move forward, shedding past attachments and recognizing that new possibilities can only emerge if we are willing to embrace change. Oyeku Meji speaks to the need to release what no longer serves us, emphasizing that when we let go of the past and trust in divine wisdom, we make room for personal growth and spiritual elevation. It is about trusting the natural cycles of life and aligning with the flow of the universe, even when it seems like things are being taken away or altered. In this, there is a powerful lesson about "turning the page" and embracing transformation. It teaches that to truly grow and evolve, one must trust the process of change, even when it feels uncomfortable.
This Odu embodies the sentiment of stopping the reopening of closed doors—reminding us that our soul’s evolution requires us to sometimes leave things behind to allow for new experiences and opportunities to take shape. It teaches that if we persist in trying to return to what has already passed, we hinder our own progress. However, when we let go of the old and embrace the new, we align with the divine flow of life and allow ourselves to expand into new dimensions of growth and understanding.
“Let go of what has already passed, for only by doing so can you open yourself to the new opportunities that await you. Trust in the divine process of transformation, and know that what is meant for you will never pass you by.”
The lesson is clear: to evolve spiritually and personally, we must sometimes let go of old ways, relationships, and situations that we hold onto out of comfort or fear. When we persist in reopening these doors, we block our ability to walk through new opportunities that may be aligned with our highest good.
This is what eclipse season is all about. It’s a time of powerful shifts that encourage us to reflect, release, and realign. In the process, we often face our shadows—the parts of us that fear change, fear being alone, or fear the unknown. But those shadows are not to be feared. They are there to help us understand what’s still holding us back and to guide us into a more authentic, free version of ourselves.
As we navigate this period of growth and transformation, let us remember the wisdom of my elder's words. The new possibilities, the fresh opportunities, and the evolved versions of ourselves are waiting to be discovered. So, let’s stop reopening old doors and embrace the unknown with faith that what is meant for us will always find its way.
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